tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post3127013408638849361..comments2023-09-06T05:14:18.262-05:00Comments on My Lapband Journal: Major Life ChangesCeeJayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08108144896669458008noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-63620629976758144242011-04-19T09:48:36.129-05:002011-04-19T09:48:36.129-05:00I'm so sorry to hear about this Cheryl. But, ...I'm so sorry to hear about this Cheryl. But, maybe it's an opportunity for new exciting things in your life.Lylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09330598009302675050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-24862191391545111642011-04-18T12:59:27.301-05:002011-04-18T12:59:27.301-05:00I'm so sorry! I hope that your dream alternat...I'm so sorry! I hope that your dream alternative reveals itself to you and all goes well.Beth Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16063989714851082617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-44005259056102542822011-04-18T11:22:43.629-05:002011-04-18T11:22:43.629-05:00I am so sorry to hear this. I went through the sam...I am so sorry to hear this. I went through the same thing last year (exactly 30 days after banding) and it was terrible. It will all work out one way or another though. I'll keep sending you good thoughts.Stephanie M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17389046478307990176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-82415038399877356442011-04-17T20:52:17.487-05:002011-04-17T20:52:17.487-05:00I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Hop...I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Hopefully it is a blessing in disguise and you find an even better job.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00603681230277050772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-24132330650823540772011-04-17T19:48:05.748-05:002011-04-17T19:48:05.748-05:00So sorry. Don't be too hard on yourself, emot...So sorry. Don't be too hard on yourself, emotional eating is really a drag but when you are in "survival mode" the last thing you need to be doing is beating yourself up. <br /><br />Hope things start to look up.Genhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11414571860592267584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-90427444883287912052011-04-17T15:26:03.778-05:002011-04-17T15:26:03.778-05:00I agree with everyone else! And I hope that every...I agree with everyone else! And I hope that everything turns out the way you want it to!!!Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-62971699947633307442011-04-16T18:32:39.181-05:002011-04-16T18:32:39.181-05:00i would not ask for a commitment so soon in a rela...i would not ask for a commitment so soon in a relationship. nobody likes to feel pressure. just enjoy the ride. as for a job. apply to your current job and others. see what offers you get. then decide from there what is the best choice for you. if you do have to travel 100 miles to work i wouldnt move right away. i would commute and see where i want to go from there. dont jump the gun. and everything will work out.lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08038101627479448044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-31375231453488391472011-04-16T15:23:36.468-05:002011-04-16T15:23:36.468-05:00I'm so sorry to hear this new, Ceejay, but am ...I'm so sorry to hear this new, Ceejay, but am confident you will come out on top of this!Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10000853817685155586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-39075185042361464792011-04-16T12:59:57.593-05:002011-04-16T12:59:57.593-05:00scary times indeed. But I think thanks to the jour...scary times indeed. But I think thanks to the journey you've been on in the past year and a bit that you're in a MUCH better position to face it all head on - the good, the bad, the ugly.<br />I agree with the others who've suggested you sit down and talk with mr hottie. You're not pressing him for answers at this point, but you definitely need to get an idea of where his head is up before you start planning your next moves around him and a fledgling relationship. <br />Try not to turn to food for comfort or relief. that's not going to help long term. We're here whenever you need us!Island Bandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00421990012463915414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-8471696631956805602011-04-16T12:08:04.407-05:002011-04-16T12:08:04.407-05:00Oh Ceejay, I am so sorry this happened to you. We ...Oh Ceejay, I am so sorry this happened to you. We had layoffs at my job last week and it's so awful. Definitely try to talk to hottie if possible. <br />Hopefully the uncertainty will bring good changes. Also, if you do decide to look for new job options think how much more confident you will be after losing so much weight.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045822533798781579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-61766910112945718712011-04-16T09:40:32.733-05:002011-04-16T09:40:32.733-05:00Oh, I'm so sorry about this! The uncertainty h...Oh, I'm so sorry about this! The uncertainty has to be scary. I'm certain that you are in a much better position now though to be looking for work. Hang in there....and best of luck!Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07794746954511347596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-4640108148525510322011-04-16T09:22:33.935-05:002011-04-16T09:22:33.935-05:00Oh gosh I'm so sorry. I hope that in just a f...Oh gosh I'm so sorry. I hope that in just a few weeks time you'll look back at this and say it was a blessing in disguise and you're AOK.♥ Drazil ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/10177140029694038645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-19651806085103931452011-04-16T08:53:03.463-05:002011-04-16T08:53:03.463-05:00What a shock, I'm sorry that this has happened...What a shock, I'm sorry that this has happened. Is Josh's job safe? (you do work together don't you?) <br />Think that Heather is right, talk to him about it in general terms maybe?Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03267116546096340339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-59444257145496845952011-04-16T08:28:32.691-05:002011-04-16T08:28:32.691-05:00I am so sorry Ceejay! I agree with Heather---talk ...I am so sorry Ceejay! I agree with Heather---talk to Josh about your relationship, the job changes, etc. Good idea to polish up the resume. Best of luck! Keep us posted. *HUGS*-Grace-https://www.blogger.com/profile/14777413585734523956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-50620383140084924632011-04-16T07:32:17.854-05:002011-04-16T07:32:17.854-05:00That is horrible news :( I hope that everything w...That is horrible news :( I hope that everything works out for you. Life is full of curve balls.Something About Kelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18162623591624971791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2932736446111682488.post-52473493740341861442011-04-16T07:27:40.980-05:002011-04-16T07:27:40.980-05:00Pug Ceejay that is horrible news! Time to make so...Pug Ceejay that is horrible news! Time to make some hard thought realizations on life. As for Josh, seek him for some guidance on this matter. You will learn a lot from his responses regarding his true intentions.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00329952072017284282noreply@blogger.com