It's hard not to be bitter and jaded on a day like today. A whole day devoted to lover's and couples. Yuk! (Read...I'm ridiculously jealous). When will I get my turn? Everywhere I look...TV, radio, work, Facebook, blogs, etc. everyone is talking about Valentine's Day. Is there a phrase like "bah humbug" that could be used on a day like today?There is nothing worse than seeing happy people. I know I should be joyful for them and happy that they have found love. But wow, I have got a great big case of the green eyed monster of envy today. Being single on Valentine's day makes me feel broken, like there is something terribly wrong with me. I guess the only good part of the day is that since I won't be getting a heart shaped box of chocolates from my love today, I won't have to worry about the weight gain.
OK, girls I have to write a tiny little update here...just when I thought that I hated Valentine's Day...the hottie in a uniform at work told me Happy Valentine's Day today...sigh. :) Now to figure out does that mean something? Am I reading too much into our little interactions in the hallway? At any rate it was sweet and made me smile.
I'm so sorry and completely understand. I spent 16 years married to a man that had his birthday on Valentine's Day...needless to say I got nothing! Not even a "Happy Valentine's day" wish from him. (Nothing for Mother's Day either!) I was single for 5 years and that time was hard for me. I hated it.
ReplyDeleteHang in there! Your time will come...and yes; the silver lining is no weight gain from the Valentine sweets.
Here's to you and your Love-to-Be making everyone else totally jealous and sick next year!! Hee hee! Your turn is around the corner. Sending you lots of love and best wishes today!
ReplyDeleteHappy valentines day, Cheryl! Tomorrow we'll resume regularily scheduled programming.
ReplyDeleteI've been married forever, but I totally remember being single on V-day. I thought I was missing out on something everyone else got to take part in...but the truth is, its just another day, not such a big deal after all. Seriously, you are not missing much!
ReplyDeleteAnd I agree with Catherine - next Vday its your turn!
I'm married and I hate Valentine's Day. Such a stupid, fake, ridiculous holiday that only makes people feel sad most of the time. I flat out refuse to celebrate this day. My husband knew from our first year together that if he tried to make me celebrate, I would break up with him. I volunteered to work tonight and I'm going home to eat leftovers for dinner.
ReplyDeleteI completely understand. And I'm so glad you saw the video I posted from youtube. A friend of mine posted it on her facebook page and I have to admit, it was like a hug on this miserable hallmark holiday. Be gentle with yourself today and give the universe all your heart's desires . . .have faith . . . it will happen. :-)
ReplyDeleteGreat thoughts Kelly, what an uplifting way to think. I love that line...give the universe all your heart's desires. Wonderful!
ReplyDeleteHappy Valentine's Day. Just remember there are a lot of couples out there who don't like this day either. Love yourself because really that's the most important love.
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